Confidence

Confidence

I suppose everyone has confidence issues. Whether those issues arose from bullying is another topic. 

We have issues because our hair isn't as full, or as shiny, or curly, or straight, as the girls' on the bus next to us. Because models have perfect bodies and we don't. Because our faces don't look how we want them to look. Because certain make up look doesn't suit us. Or because there are other flaws that we might have. 

Look at yourself in the mirror and tell me that there isn't a thing you don't like? Your eye colour? Your nose shape? Your lips? What about those dimples or freckles? Hair? No? There must be a thing, it could be the smallest feature that you like! Nails, fingers, toes, legs, arms? 

Well if there is then you are one step into loving yourself. If there isn't then look closer. 

Now look deeper: smile, make a goofy face, make angry expression, found any new features you like? Or did that made you laugh? (Which is also loving yourself.)

If mirrors can show our beauty why do we choose to only see the bad things? Why do we compare ourselves to other? Why do we think people with a better body or prettier face have a better/happier life? Because I can guarantee you that they don't. 

Only if person is truly in love with themselves would he see how amazing and worthy he is. 

So stop comparing yourself to photoshopped magazine models, or pop starts. They are in the industry there they have to look a certain way so they can show what designers preach to make you buy the things and what the things that they design and wear. It is all just the image and your envy. Everything has to be looking perfect so YOU would buy their clothing or accessory they WANT you to buy.

There is so much more to you than looks, see that in yourself and no matter what magazines you read or mean comments you get you must believe in yourself. You are unique. You are the only one in this world. See yourself as worthy no matter how many times you've been criticized by anyone - because that is you. Worthy and beautiful. 

Yours Izabele

xoxo